Becoming Her

Becoming Her After my body changed, one of the most unexpected challenges was something simple: I didn’t know what size I was anymore. The Fitting Room Spiral Before, I knew my sections. I knew my size. I knew which cuts worked. I knew which brands to avoid. Now? Everything felt uncertain. Is this too big? Too small? Is it the size? Or the cut? Or the fabric? Or just me overthinking? I’d grab three different sizes of the same item. Walk into the fitting room. And feel overwhe

Becoming Her When your body changes, getting dressed isn’t just about clothes anymore — it’s about learning how to see yourself again. Losing 85 pounds changed my body. I expected that. What I didn’t expect was how disorienting it would feel to get dressed. Opening my closet suddenly felt unfamiliar. Not because I hated what I saw. But because I didn’t fully recognize it. The proportions were different. The silhouettes didn’t sit the same. The “safe” outfits felt off. And for